The Near-Death Experience in Children

Nancy Evans Bush

This is a retitled and slightly edited version of the first descriptive study of NDEs in children, published in Anabiosis: The Journal of Near-Death Studies in 1983. It is hard to comprehend now, thirty years later, how radical the notion seemed that young children might have any kind of near-death experience, much less ones that resembled those described by adults. As early as this was for the fledgling archive of the International Association for Near-Death Studies, the files produced fifteen detailed accounts of childhood NDEs; another two “as-told-to” accounts came by mail and telephone from the mothers of still-young children.

The original article’s abstract concluded, “The elements of NDEs occurring at early ages appear to be substantially similar to those of adult experiences.”


Although the occurrence of near-death experiences (NDEs) in adults is now widely accepted as a legitimate phenomenon, evidence of such experiences happening to children has been sparse. Accounts of childhood NDEs in the archives of the International Association for Near-Death Studies (lANDS) are primarily retrospective, written as many as sixty-five years after the event. Though these accounts are often vivid, they are necessarily filtered through an adult consciousness. Melvin Morse (1983) has recently described an NDE occurring in a seven-year-old child, and Glen Gabbard and Stuart Twemlow (in press) have discussed details and implications of NDEs in three children between the ages of five and seven.

Recently lANDS received letters from two mothers of children who had reported NDEs after near-drownings. We present in this paper details from our contacts with these two mothers, and elements of fifteen retrospective accounts of childhood NDEs from the lANDS archives. In the absence of more abundant data from a larger sample, this article offers no interpretation of these experiences. Premature speculation as to their psychodynamic or developmental import for child experiencers might serve only to muddy waters now being explored for the first time. For now, the experiences described here will serve as introduction. Experiences occurring above the age of fifteen have been excluded from this survey.


Of the childhood accounts in the IANDS archives [in 1983], fifteen are sufficiently detailed to provide a clear picture of the experiences. Fourteen of  the experiencers say the NDE has been remembered clearly since the event, a period ranging from 11 to 65 years. The other, occurring at the age of 13 months, was recalled 27 years later under hypnosis.

Causal events were, in most cases, relatively common childhood disasters, some reflecting medical capabilities at the time of occurrence: there are four near- drownings; three ruptured appendices; two unidentified illnesses with prolonged high fever; and one case each resulting from mastoiditis, pneumonia/mastoiditis, drug allergy, and a fall. Two incidents were not typically childhood-associated, one resulting from a “heart attack” (no other information given) and one when a boy was swept into a flood-swollen river (not a near-drowning). There is no correlation between age and precipitating event.

These retrospective experiences are here categorized by their predominant NDE features, ordered by frequency of mention rather than by sequence within the experience(s).

The Light

The adults interviewed for Kenneth Ring’s Life at Death (1980) were asked, “Did you at any time experience a light, glow, or illumination?” Thirty-four percent answered affirmatively. In Michael Sabom’s study, Recollections of Death (1982), light appeared as a prominent feature in 28 percent of the responses. By comparison, in these unsolicited retrospective accounts of childhood NDEs, with no question asked that might prompt a mention, light is the most-noted feature, appearing in 65 percent of the experiences.

A nine-year-old girl had a near-death experience four hours after surgery for a ruptured appendix, her surgeon having already told her parents that she would probably not live through the night. As she described her NDE,

Then  the blackness was gone and in its place was a beautiful soft pink light. All the weight was gone, and I floated back up into the room as light as a feather. I seemed to be filled with this same light, which was the most profound spirit of love that you can imagine. Nothing has ever come near it since. I opened my eyes, and the whole room was just bathed in that beautiful light. In fact, the light completely surrounded everything in the room, there were no shadows. I felt so happy … I heard my father say, ‘What’s she looking at?’ The light lasted for a little while and it was wonderful.

Another nine-year-old girl, diving off the high board at summer camp, slipped and plunged uncontrolled into the ocean.

The next thing I remember is floating only an inch or two from the ocean’s sandy bottom in the midst of a great light. The light wasn’t the bright glaring sort of light that makes you blink. Instead, this light was incandescent, almost ethereal. I could see every indentation and curvature in the sand and minute details in the seaweed. If there were fish or shells, I don’t remember them. I felt absolutely nothing. Not the water, nor the sand, nothing. I was surrounded by silence, but I wasn’t afraid. I wanted to stay there forever. I have never since experienced such a feeling of peace.

A four-year-old girl descended the cellar stairs with a flashlight because the bulb at the landing had burned out. Years later, she reported:

As I started to take the first step down, I flashed the beam of light up at the light bulb, curious to see if a burned-out bulb looked ‘burned.’ I stepped out and fell into the darkness.

The next thing I was aware of, was being up near the ceiling over the foot of the stairs. The light was dim and at first I saw nothing unusual. Then I saw myself lying, face down, on the cement, over to the side of the stairway. I was a little surprised, but not at all upset at seeing myself that way. I watched and saw that I didn’t move at all. After a while, I said to myself, ‘I guess I’m dead.’ But I felt good! Better than I ever had. I realized I probably wouldn’t be going back to my mother, but I wasn’t afraid at all …

I noticed the dim light growing slowly brighter. The source of light was not in the basement, but far behind and slightly above me. I looked over my shoulder into the most beautiful light imaginable. It seemed to be at the end of a long tunnel which was gradually getting brighter and brighter as more and more of the light entered it. It was yellow-white and brilliant, but not painful to look at even directly. As I turned to face the light t with my full ‘body,’ I felt happier than I ever had before or have since.

Then the light was gone. I felt groggy and sick, with a terrible headache.

I only wanted my mother, and to stop my head from hurting.

A fourteen-year-old boy and his family were in their car, trapped on a bridge by rising flood waters; trying to escape, they were swept over the side and downstream. He later wrote to lANDS:

I knew I was either dead or going to die. But then something happened. It was so immense, so powerful, that I gave up on my life to see what it was. I wanted to venture into this experience which started as a drifting into what I could only describe as a long, rectangular tunnel of light. But it wasn’t just light, it was a protective passage of energy with an intense brightness at the end which I wanted to look into, to touch.

… As I reached the source of the light, I could see in. I cannot begin to describe in human terms the feelings I had over what I saw. It was a giant infinite world of calm, and love, and energy, and beauty. It was as though human life was unimportant compared to this. And yet it urged the importance of life at the same time it solicited death as .a means to a different and better life. It was all being, all beauty, all meaning for all existence. It was all the energy of the Universe forever in one place.

As I reached my right hand into it, feelings of exhilarating anticipation overwhelmed me. I did not need my body any more. I wanted to leave it behind, if I hadn’t already, and go to my God in this new world.

A ten-year-old boy, sick for several weeks with an unidentified illness, had an NDE shortly after “the doctors had given up.” His account reports travel down a tunnel, and then:

I saw a tiny speck of light ahead. I went on, and as I did the speck grew larger, and I thought it was well I hadn’t turned back because I was going to discover something at last.

At about 150 yards from the end, I saw plainly that there was brilliant white light out there beyond the square end of the tunnel. It interested me and I went on. All was yet quiet, and I went blissfully on, enjoying the journey at last.

When I was about twenty-five yards from the end, the light became the most brilliant I have ever seen, yet it did not hurt my eyes. I began to wonder about that light because all I could see was light: no landscape, no people, nothing but a sea of light. And not a single ray entered the tunnel. The tunnel was black right to the end, and then there was the sea of light.

I went closer, cautious now because it seemed that the end of the tunnel was pretty high up on the side of a cliff, and since I couldn’t see through the light, I didn’t know how far the drop might be, if I left the tunnel. When I was near the end, I took a good look around at the sea of light. I was urged to jump into it, and assured that I would not fall to ground. No voice said this, it just came to me from a kind of presence. I thought it might be fun to try; but in an instant I knew that if I left the end of the tunnel I’d never find it again, and hence never get back home.

I turned around and started back through the tunnel, and that is the last I remember.

[The final paragraph of his account reads, “Believe me, if you go through what I have described, you come back with the thought that it’s a good thing you didn’t dive into that whipped cream of lovely light too soon. But you know you have ‘seen the light.”’]

A Sense of Well-Being

Of Ring’s (1980) adult sample, 20 percent identified having experienced a sense of well-being (“happy,” “good,” “beautiful”), with 60 percent remarking on the feeling of peace. Among the retrospective childhood accounts, the percentages are almost exactly reversed, 53 percent spontaneously reporting a sense of well-being and 35 percent feelings of peace.

A thirteen-month-old girl, hospitalized with pneumonia in both lungs and mastoiditis in both ears, was too sick to tolerate surgery. Considered near death, she later relived the experience under hypnosis:

I am strapped down—hands, legs, body. I feel excruciating pain. There are big people all around, with enormous hands … All at once I am safe. I am being rocked to sleep in a soft, warm and utterly serene and secure cradle. There is no pain, no noise, no turmoil, only peace, beautiful peace. The overhead light in the room is gone; in its place is all-encompassing light, the light which communicates safety and love. I feel so warm and confident inside. There is no pain. I can breathe easily; my limbs are free to move and I am all safe …. My eyes fix on the window across the room; it is outlined with the warm and happy light. My mother is looking through the window at me.

A thirteen-year-old boy who nearly drowned later reported:

It was a feeling of no pain at all. Like a floating feeling. It was like a beautiful rest period. If I was near death, it was beautiful.

A fourteen-year-old girl with an abscessed tooth had an allergic reaction to sodium pentathlon. Years later, she wrote:

I was traveling towards [the light] rather quickly. I was very warm and cozy and knew something wonderful was at the end of the tunnel and in the light.

A fourteen-year-old girl with a ruptured appendix later reported:

I did not hurt any more. I was surrounded by a puffy cloud. I really was floating in peace. I have never felt as good. My parents asked me if I needed to go to the hospital. I told them no, because I didn’t hurt any more and I was dying.

Out-of Body Experiences

Ring’s (1980) adult sample included 37 percent reporting out- of-body experiences, with roughly 33 percent identified as “visually clear.” Among the retrospectively reported childhood NDEs surveyed here, a total of 47 percent included feelings of separation from the physical body, 41 percent visually clear.

An eight-year-old boy whose ears had just been lanced for mastoiditis later reported:

Mother was covering me when I felt I was rising up in the air. Although I could see I was rising toward a bright light, I could also look down and see Mother kneeling beside me.

A twelve-year-old girl was rushed to the hospital with a ruptured appendix. She later wrote lANDS:

I became aware that not only was I completely out of pain, but that I seemed to be somehow floating along, above the ambulance. I could see my still, white form lying on the stretcher, my mother with tears in her eyes, leaning over my body, my father in the car behind the ambulance, white knuckles grasping the steering wheel. In addition, I could see my grandmother pacing up and down our living room, about fifteen miles in one direction, and my [physician] uncle at the hospital, fifteen miles in the other direction. At the time, nothing seemed odd about being able to be with all of those people at the same time. I remember feeling very detached from them, much as I feel if I walk down a strange street and casually glance into someone’s back yard.

A six-year-old boy with polio fell face-down in foot-deep water in which he was wading without his leg brace. Years later, he wrote:

Suddenly I was viewing the scene from a vantage point about two or three feet above, behind, and to the right of my mother’s right shoulder. She was sitting on the beach in a folding chair. My next older brother was playing in the sand to her right, and I could see myself floundering in the water between and beyond them. Just as I got there, my mother put down the newspaper she was holding open in front of her and reading, saw me in the water trying to call for help, and then turned to my brother and calmly told him, ‘Go pull your brother out of the water.’ I remember the words distinctly. I saw my brother stand up, walk out into the water where I was, and reach down and grab me by the shoulder. The next thing I knew, I was back in the water with my brother pulling me up.

Tunnel, Darkness

Once again, the childhood retrospective accounts show a higher incidence of entering darkness or “the tunnel” than adult accounts. The adults surveyed by Ring (1980) reported a 23 percent incidence of “entering the darkness” (41 percent in the retrospective accounts), with an 18 percent incidence of the tunnel 30 percent in the retrospective accounts).

The ten-year-old boy who traveled into the “whipped cream of lovely light” described being in a tunnel:

I don’t remember the entrance, but in a little while I was in a dark tunnel. There was absolutely no sound, and all was black. I couldn’t see to make my way through the tunnel, but I was being wafted along as a speck of dust, pitch black, but as I went along with neither sight nor sound, I felt at ease. I thought I was discovering a new cave.

After a while the tunnel became square in section, and along I went and I became annoyed, and thought to myself that the journey was pointless and fruitless and I was wasting valuable time. Just when I was about to turn back in disgust (I was completely alone), I saw a tiny speck of light ahead.

A post-operative nine-year-old girl, the first case described above, reported:

Then a strange uneasiness came over me, and as I watched, the darkness from the hall gradually came into the room and filled it. It seemed to have a weight to it, and as the room got darker, it became harder for me to breathe, like there was a weight on my chest. It felt as if this darkness was pushing me down, and as I looked up at the ceiling I noticed that it was getting smaller and smaller. It was like being pushed slowly down a mine shaft.

A fourteen-year-old girl with an allergic reaction to sodium pentothal, described above in the section on “Well-Being,” also reported:

All I knew was I was traveling – not walking or running, just somehow moving smoothly – down a long black tunnel with bright green and red lights on either side. At the end of the tunnel was a yellow or golden light. I was traveling towards it rather quickly …. It seems I got about half-way to the light when I started to reverse and it got colder. The next thing I knew … the dentist said, “You gave us quite a scare.”


The near-death experiences recounted here occurred between the ages of 13 months and 14 years; they were written down by the now- adult experiencers anywhere from 11 to 65 years later. Median age of the adults at the time of writing was 48, with a range of 25 to 72 years.

Specific analysis of the differences between retrospective accounts and those of children remembering recent experiences will obviously provide useful information; however, that study must wait for the accumulation of an adequate population of recent child experiencers. The two accounts that follow are direct transcriptions from the mothers of experiencers who are still children. Although it would be highly desirable to have a recording of the child’s voice describing the NDE himself, this lack may be counterbalanced by the fact that in relating the account to his mother, the child was in a natural setting in which he was, quite literally, “at home,” and without the need to adjust to an unfamiliar interviewer.


Because of its remarkable force and openness, Robin’s mother’s letter is reprinted here almost in entirety.

[When] I had my son, my husband Jose and I were overjoyed. A beautiful perfect strong son. He would kick so hard in the bathtub I would be frightened of his strength. A beautiful boy. So good. He never cried much. He smiled so early. Never sick. So strong.

[When he was three, almost four, we were going to the lake for a picnic with my family]. We got on a boat to go out to our own private area …. I let go of his hand and told him, “Robin, Mommy is going to get you an inner tube,” but he said, “No.” I turned around and he was gone.

I looked around and everyone was swimming or sunbathing. My sister Beth had already put her blanket down and was laying down sunbathing. She had two boys with us, one Robin’s age. The men were already swimming. I let out a scream of death. “Beth, I can’t find Robin!”

Within seconds, everyone on the beach was looking. Ten minutes went by. No Robin. I ran up on a hill. Jose followed. The rocks on the hill felt like razors on my feet but I didn’t care. I hoped Robin went up the hill. Jose embraced me. I felt totally helpless as I screamed in his arms and he cried in mine. I just knew he was dead.

As we looked down the hill, a lifeguard boat drove up. Everyone screaming to have him help. Jose left me and went back down to look. Three lifeguards. About fifteen men by this time.

As I started down the hill, Robin came up feet first by the lifeguards.

Fifteen minutes in ten feet of water by the dock. No one knew the dock was deep because the lake about two feet away was shallow. A new lake and no signs. By this time, sheriffs were holding me away from Robin. Jose was holding me, too. I remember feeling worthless because I couldn’t get to my own son. I prayed. My sister left a second and came running back. “He is alive, they have a heartbeat.”

I said, “No, she is saying that so I won’t go crazy.” When I saw a helicopter, I then felt maybe, because they wanted to take him to the hospital nearby.

[At the hospital] we met a lady doctor. She told us, “He’s alive, but very, very sick.” She stayed with Robin for many hours. Robin was in a deep coma. Machines and a plastic box over his head. I couldn’t touch him. My baby, three years and eight months. Our tears were endless.

The doctor transferred him to the Medical Center and stayed with him all night until he was stabilized. I drove out [there] three times a day because my work wouldn’t let me off. We tore our car apart, but I didn’t care.

Two weeks. No change. One day I went in his room. His bed was stripped. No sheets, no Robin. I dug my fingers into Jose. A housekeeper came in his room and said, “He’s down the hall.” We walked down the hall, always numb. I thought he was dead. As we slowly walked into the room, Robin was laughing at a clown passing out balloons.

The next day he was in a wheelchair. We took him down to the cafeteria for lunch. He ate like a horse. Talking to us. Walking with us slowly for a few days.

In three weeks he was back to the day-care center.

No brain damage. Just ear damage that has been corrected.

Robin is eleven now, and about six months ago he shared something with me about the white light. I couldn’t understand until I listened carefully.

He said, “A long time ago I was awake. Not asleep! I was going up in the air and saw you and Papa crying. Something came to me and said you have to go back. I felt good, but I liked all the people I saw.”

I asked Robin who he saw, and he said they were too bright, but, “One man held me and I felt so good I wanted to stay, but he said no.”

Just a few days ago, I reminded Robin of what he told me and he didn’t remember and laughed at me. Maybe someday he will remember again.


Jer was four when he fell into the deep end of the apartment house swimming pool. A year later, his mother heard of lANDS and wrote, saying, “I need help in trying to explain certain things which I know nothing about. Don’t think this is a crack-pot letter. I’m really confused about this.”

What follows is a verbatim account (rearranged for chronological sequence) of a lengthy telephone conversation with Jer’s mother.

The day it happened, Jer had gone outside to play. Maybe ten minutes.

I had checked on him maybe ten minutes before. The other boys came running and told me Jer was in the water.

My girl friend pulled him out of the pool. I knew he was dead. I could see it on his face. His lips were pale blue. I knew he was dead. I started mouth-to-mouth, and then my other girl friend took over. He was in the water four or five minutes, in the deep end. The paramedics got there real quick.

The day of the accident, two doctors had come from [the Medical Center] to do a conference on the new controlled coma procedures for drownings. They were still at our little hospital and they drove back to [the Medical Center] with Jer. They started him on the drugs right t away.

They put him into a controlled coma for seven days, with his temper- nature way down. The first brain scan they did was unreadable. They said there was just nothing there.

I knew if I was there with him in the hospital he’d be okay. I knew it, in spite of what the doctors said. They said there would be severe brain damage, and we’d better be preparing ourselves for it.

We drove to [the Medical Center] every morning, a two-hour trip each way. I’d go in and say, “Hi, Jer, Mom’s here,” and I’d kiss him. And his heart rate would go up. Some of the doctors said we didn’t have to be there, that it was too much for us every day, but I knew we had to be there. I know he knew somehow that we were there. They told us to keep talking to him. His heart rate went up, and other things.

Two or three days later, they did another brain scan. The nurse said it was better, but the doctors still said there was major brain damage. They said he might die when they started to warm him up. They started warming him up on Thursday. They said it might take until Sunday, because they were doing it real slow, but he started coming around almost immediately. They didn’t know what to do, he was coming around so fast.

They said he wouldn’t remember anything about the experience, if he could remember anything at all. They really expected him to be so damaged. But when he woke up, the first thing he said was, “Get me a doctor – I’m drowning.”

I should tell you, Jer has always been terrified of water. He was just terrified. After we got him home from the hospital, we had a little party for him. Kind of a welcome back. I mean, we were just so glad that he was – well, that he was back at all. And the first thing he did, he said he wanted to go in the pool. I nearly died. I never wanted to go near the thing again. But I put his floaters on him and he went over and dove right in the deep part. When he came up, he said to his brother, ‘See, Jon, I came back again.’

He walked around with this for almost a year, and then one day he came to me and said, ‘Sit down. I have to talk to you, Mother.’ That’s not a five-year-old. He never calls me ‘Mother.’

He said, ‘When I drowned, I didn’t want to come back. I saw something real pretty in the sky. I saw you and Josie and another lady working on me. I was sitting on the roof and I could see you.

‘Then it got real dark and I walked down a tunnel. There was a bright light at the end, and a man was standing there.’

I asked him, ‘Who was the man?’

He said, ‘It was God. And I said I wanted to stay. But God said it wasn’t my time yet and I had to come back. I put my hand out and God put his hand out and then God pulled his hand back. He didn’t want me to stay.

‘On the way back, I saw the devil. He said if I did what he wanted, I could have anything I want.’

I said, ‘You know God is good and the devil is evil.’

He said, ‘The devil said I could have anything I wanted, but I didn’t want him bossing me around.’

I said, ‘Mom and Dad wanted you back real bad, and God knew that.

He let you come back to us.’

And he said, ‘When I fell in the water, I called and called for you, but you didn’t hear me.’

Since his experience, Jer’s mother reports, he has become moody, with dreams, good and bad, that affect his behavior the following day. She says he gets ‘a faraway look’ and says his dreams are sometimes about ‘castles in the sky.’

The beginning of school led to severe behavioral disruptions that have led Jer’s parents to take him for counseling. Believing the near-drowning experience to be related to the behavior changes, Jer’s mother told the psychologist about it; however, the response was, ‘You know children and their imaginations.’ The therapist will not discuss it.

Our interview concluded with the following:

When he gets moody, I’ll ask him why.

‘I think I’ll keep that my business for a while,’ he says. It’s like a grown-up person in a little body. He seems to have no sense of fear, and that scares me. Pain doesn’t seem to bug him, either. It just doesn’t bother him.

He gets this faraway look and if I ask he says it’s so nice there. Is he going to try to do something to get back there? I think there’s something there, too, that he doesn’t want to talk to Mom about. Something is bothering him that he can’t tell me. What do I do? I mean, I’m saying, ‘Come on back, Jer,’ and God’s up there, and I’m saying—what do I do now?


Adherents to the tabula rasa view of childhood development may find these accounts disquieting. There is no indication here that children’s experiences are simpler, less detailed, or different in structure from those occurring in adults as described by Raymond Moody (1975), Ring (1980), Sabom (1982), and George Gallup (1982). What may be most remarkable about them is that, when compared with the content of adult experiences, they are so unremarkable.

However, the incidence of features in these childhood NDEs varies from those of adult experiences, using Ring’s (1980) data for comparison. As Ring’s respondents participated in a structured interview and the childhood experiencers did not, the comparability of the exact percentages cannot be considered entirely reliable but is certainly interesting.

Percentages of Reported NDE Features

  Childhood N=17(Unsolicited mentions) Adult N=49(Solicited mentions)
Light 65% 34%
Sense of well-being (happy, good, beautiful) 53% 20%
Separation from body 47% 37%
Autoscopic OBE 41%
Entering the darkness 41% 23%
Peace 35% 60%
Absence of fear 35% 47%
Encounter with spiritual
presences, voices
35% 40%
Tunnel 30% 18%
No pain 24% 49%
Floating 24%
Silence 24% 16%
Wisdom, knowingness 24%
Ineffability 18% 49%
Negative elements/Landscape 18%
Encounter with deceased people 12% 16%
Sense of dying 12% 39%
Sense of a boundary 6% 27%
Believed self dead 6 % 25%
Life review 25%
Chose to return 12% 34%
Told to return 24% 23%
“Just came back”No information about 30%
No information about return 35% 53%



Whereas roughly a third of the Ring and Sabom adult experiencers mentioned light as a prominent characteristic of their NDE, two thirds of the childhood experiencers recalled it as a major feature. In this sample of childhood accounts, the light is described almost exactly as it is in adult narratives, but is mentioned twice as frequently.

Life review and judgment

Both Moody (1975) and Ring (1980) found a strong relationship between the life review and the idea of judgment. It is all the more interesting, then, that none of these childhood accounts includes a life review, for nowhere in any of these experiences is the word “judgment” mentioned, nor “judge,” nor the idea that one’s life might be evaluated as “good” or “bad.” The concept is totally absent, even among the older children who might have been expected to identify more closely with adult thought patterns. It is also not found in the three who believed themselves either dead or dying.

Four of the children encountered a figure or presence, variously identified as “God,” “a big man,” or “like a giant.” Although the ages of the four obviously represent widely differing developmental stages—three years and eight months, four, nine, and fourteen years—the concept of judgment or of “goodness/badness” is absent from them all. Fear is not mentioned as an element in the encounters, nor are awe, joy, bliss, nor any of the other characteristics described by adults in similar circumstances. The children are, in fact, quite matter-of-fact in reporting the presence.

Encounters with deceased persons

It is probably not surprising that only two of these childhood accounts report meetings with deceased persons. One, a twelve-year-old, said he met “a teacher and a schoolmate”; the other, an eight-year-old boy, reported entering a garden and meeting a girl somewhat older than he who identified herself as his sister. Asking his parents about her later, he discovered that an older sister had died at birth.

Knowing; the feeling of wisdom  

Although adults have reported a powerful sense of knowledge, of being suffused with information that sometimes—and startlingly—surfaces after resuscitation, the children’s experiences tend to be presented in specifically age-related terms. “The overwhelming feeling was one of wisdom or a great ‘knowingness,’” wrote a woman of her experience. “That is a strange feeling for a twelve-year-old who one moment has the sense that all grownups know so much and then the next moment feels so wise. I recall sort of pausing to savor that feeling.”

Another wrote, “I felt wonderful and calm and strong. I wasn’t nine years old, I was eternal.”

And about an experience at the age of four, a woman noted, “I felt strong and confident, with a strong sense that everything was all right. I didn’t feel like a little child or any age at all.”

Absence of fear

Although mentioned more frequently by adults (47 percent as compared to 35 percent in children), absence of fear is a strong element in the six accounts in which it is explicit. In every case, the lack of fear is especially noted for its contrast to the child’s usual feelings; its absence is marked, specific, and clearly remembered. In their accustomed selves, said the writers, they were timid, afraid of heights, fearful of separation from their parents, frightened in strange situations, or aware of being powerlessly small; yet during the NDE, these terrors vanished.

By contrast, adult comments about being unafraid are stylistically more casual, on the order of an offhand remark. Reading a group of the childhood experiences, by contrast, evokes powerful reminiscences of the nameless terrors that accompany being very young.

Worth mentioning for its fearless tone is the account of the ten- year-old boy exploring the “pitch black” square tunnel. “I thought I was discovering a new cave ,” said the writer, and then, “ … I was wasting valuable time. Just when I was about to turn back in disgust … I saw a tiny speck of light ahead …. I thought it was well I hadn’t turned back because I was going to discover something at last.” Despite a lapse of forty-five years, the account carries with it a whiff of Huckleberry Finn.

Negative elements

Sabom reported that “Momentary fright or bewilderment sometimes accompanied the initial passage into darkness …. In time, however, these unpleasant emotions were replaced with calm, peace, or tranquility” (1982, p. 41). Ring noted that “Although people sometimes report feeling scared or confused near the beginning of their experience, none felt they either were on their way to hell or that they had ‘fallen into’ it” (1980, p. 192) .In general, the childhood accounts corroborate these remarks, with some qualifications.

One lengthy account describes an experience, not characterized by its writer as “hellish,” which was nonetheless very frightening to her right up to a last-minute rescue by a presence. The experience of the four-year-old who said he met “the devil” has not yet been investigated by direct interview with the youngster to elicit his reaction to or interpretation of the incident. His account, as reported by his mother, is unusual not only for its specific mention of “the devil,” but also because the pattern of his experience moves from positive, strongly wanting to stay with the presence he identifies as God, to what might be considered negative, not wanting to remain with a presence identified as “the devil” (although it is worth mentioning that the child’s immediate response was not fearful but almost comically dismissive—“I didn’t want him bossing me around.”) This progression is in contrast to the Ring and Sabom findings that negatively inclined experiences resolve positively.


A curious finding is that the only four-cornered tunnels mentioned in all of lANDS’ archives [as of 1983] are the two appearing in these accounts, one described as “square in section” and the other as “a long, rectangular tunnel.”


Despite the small number and retrospective nature of the available accounts, certain conclusions appear justifiable.

1. Near-death experiences can and do occur in children, quite possibly even among youngsters in pre-linguistic developmental stages. Data collection from the very youngest experiencers will present interesting, though probably not insurmountable, challenges to researchers.

2. Childhood experiences appear to follow patterns similar to those encountered with adults. With the exception of the absent life review and sense of judgment (at least in the experiences surveyed here), the features of children’s experiences are comparable to those reported by adults in content, affect, and perceived significance, though wide variances have been noted in frequency of certain features.

3. Within the childhood population, age is unrelated to the type or complexity of experience. In an all-child population (as contrasted with the adults writing retrospectively), attained language development may affect the likelihood of capturing complete and accurate descriptions, as may the development of conceptual abilities. In the accounts presented here, it is not possible to determine how much of the affective interpretation is an adult overlay, though the specificity of memory detail in some cases (see “Knowing; the feeling of wisdom” section) suggests that this is not a major issue.

4. According to the writers of these retrospective accounts, the aftereffects of childhood experiences may be subjectively perceived as strongly as those that follow adult experiences. With little “before” and much “after” in the lives of the experiencers, examination of this issue will be muddied as developmental changes mask clear identification of most behavioral aftereffects. However, Jer’s experience alone is sufficient testimony to the need for thoughtful study of NDEs in children, with careful attention given to their aftereffects and the development of interventions that will support the children and their families as they work through integration of the experience. .


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